🌿 Client Code of Conduct & Agreements
Welcome & Intention
This Code of Conduct is a living agreement between us, designed to support clarity, trust, and mutual respect in our work together. Whether we’re connecting through conversation, presence, stillness, movement, or touch, our shared space is one where your full humanity is welcome.
This document holds structure—but it’s not a wall, it’s a container. A place to feel safe, seen, and respected. I bring warmth, honesty, professionalism, and care to every session. These agreements help us co-create something meaningful, grounded, and supportive.
A Note on Mutuality
Our sessions are co-created. You are not here to impress, perform, or please me. You are here to be real, present, and supported.
You may ask for what you want. You may express how things feel. You are invited to bring your truth into the room—even if it’s messy, unsure, or hard to name. That’s part of the work.
Code of Conduct
This Code of Conduct applies to all clients—whether we meet online, in person, or through surrogate partner or professional cuddling sessions. It's designed to create a safe, respectful, and human-centered experience for both of us.
1. Age & Intake
All clients must be 18+.
Clients aged 18–24 may need additional support clarifying goals, especially if emotional regulation or attachment is a concern.
2. Communication & Scheduling
Preferred contact: text or in-person. I do not schedule via social media.
If you prefer to use email, please be patient—and follow up if needed. Emails sometimes get buried.
To speed things up:
Submit a request at www.janettrevino.com
Text me once you’ve submitted it
Allow 1–3 days for response to new inquiries
Texting is for coordination and brief check-ins only. Longer conversations belong in session.
When in doubt, speak it out—clarity keeps us safe.
3. Intake Disclosures
You’re encouraged to share any mental health diagnoses, physical conditions, or substance use (prescribed or recreational) that might impact our work.
In case of emergency, please provide a name and number of someone I may contact beyond 911.
4. Consent, Boundaries & Limits
We co-create each session through active, ongoing consent.
Boundaries are self-care lines; limits are your “yes” or “no” zones.
If touch is part of our session, it is always explicitly agreed upon and can be withdrawn at any time.
Requests are welcome; action is mutually negotiated.
5. Confidentiality
You may share your experience in any way that feels right to you.
I will never share information that identifies you.
I may speak about themes in my work in a generalized way—never as individual stories.
6. Tech & Recording
No recordings, photos, or video—by either of us—without explicit consent.
This helps keep our sessions grounded in trust and presence.
7. Session Agreements
Clothing expectations will be discussed in advance.
Please arrive with minimal body odor and clean teeth, unless otherwise agreed upon.
You may end the session at any time. I may do the same if I feel unsafe or disrespected.
When possible, I will give a clear verbal warning first.
8. Feedback Culture
You’re invited to share feedback—before, during, or after.
I may also offer reflections if they support your clarity, safety, or growth.
Honest feedback makes our work stronger and more attuned.
9. Power Dynamics
Intimacy-based sessions can stir strong emotional responses.
I hold this awareness with care. My role is to support your autonomy, not to lead or define your experience.
My warmth and care are genuine and professional.
Emotional intimacy is part of the work—not an invitation to blur boundaries.
10. Session Intentions & Physical Reactions
If you’re hoping to “fix” something or work toward a specific goal, please name it—it helps keep us aligned.
Bodies react sometimes. If something physical arises that isn’t aligned with the session’s intentions, we’ll simply acknowledge it and refocus.
11. Asking for What You Want
There is no request too awkward or inappropriate to ask.
That doesn’t mean it will be fulfilled—but honesty is always preferred than silence.
We navigate all requests with respect and professionalism.
12. Emotional Responses & Attachment
Feeling deeply, “catching feelings,” or forming emotional attachments is normal and valid.
Rather than acting on those feelings, we can explore what they mean about you.
That’s part of the work—I welcome it.
13. Session Purpose & Frequency
Sessions can be part of long-term care or a short-term goal.
Both are welcome and valid.
14. Accessibility & Needs
If you have mobility, sensory, communication, neurodivergent, or other access needs, let me know.
I aim to create a space that works for your body, mind, and nervous system.
15. Physical Environment
Driveway parking is preferred to avoid street traffic; street parking is fine too.
The privacy gate will be closed during our session.
I’ll show you emergency exits during your first in-person visit.
16. Late Arrival & Cancellation
If you're more than 15 minutes late without contact, the session may be forfeited.
No-shows are charged 50% of the missed session fee, plus full payment for the next.
A $40 deposit may be required for your first session.
It is non-refundable if canceled with less than 24 hours’ notice.
It is refunded if canceled with more than 24 hours’ notice.
Grounding, Aftercare & The Space Between
Sometimes after a session, you may feel peaceful and full. Other times, you might feel tender, raw, or unsettled—especially if you’re returning to a life where you’re not often seen, safe, or held in this way.
This is not a sign that something went wrong. It’s a sign that something meaningful happened.
It’s common to feel:
Grief or longing
Emotional vulnerability
Disconnection from others or your environment
A desire to return quickly—or to pull away from the intensity
If this arises, I invite you to:
Be gentle with yourself afterward—less screen time, more rest or soothing
Name the contrast out loud or in writing—it helps integration
Remember: the space we create doesn’t disappear—it lives on in you
We can also build in transition time, grounding practices, or simple rituals to help you leave more softly.
And if it’s helpful, feel free to send a short text after your first session to share how you’re doing. I may not respond right away, but I’ll hold your experience with care.