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Often before and during a session, I'm asked, "What's your favorite position?" There's many reasons why I'm asked this, and sometimes it's because my clients want to please ME! It's not easy to be about your own experience, your own touch, and pleasure.
Luckily, the Cuddlist model speaks to this, and in our screening call, I communicate that all clients must be prepared to ask for what they want. I do provide resources (what I call homework) ahead of time so that they can consider what would feel good to them.
All sessions begin with me asking, how would you like to begin experiencing touch? And, we begin!
And when this question comes up, I talk about the difference between macro touch & micro touch. This is a concept I've created to explain what my favorite part of cuddling is.
Macro is the larger, possibly full body, positions like spooning, forking, etc. We don't usually look beyond this position when we cuddle. Except though, there's still so much more!! I introduce the concept of micro touch. Micro is what's done once we're in the position. Micro could be once permission is given, the toes touching, my hand caressing their arm, my head nuzzling into their neck, or the light touch along the furrowed brow that many come in with.
Mircro touch is the way to go, & it is my favorite addition to all cuddling positions! This is my favorite part. Book a session by requesting online.